Social Media Changes Communication… Changes Relationships

by Shauna Nicholson on June 12, 2008

in Communication, Social Media, User Experience

Business applications of social media have been prompting serious debate on the very legitimacy of the networks. A while ago, I gave some business applications on how social media is used, and provided an example of how Twitter has molded communication. Having integrated social media into my personal and business life, I want to take it a step further to define how these same tools are carving business relationships.

In the past, passing along business cards was a standard. Don’t get me wrong, I love mine. Now, they’re a starting point for further communication contacts. More often, I’m finding profile links and social media references on cards. This accomplishes a few different things:

  • Helps establish trust
  • Keeps the conversation going
  • Provides a lower barrier to entry to continuing conversation (less formal)
  • Lends a peak into what other things the person has going on, in real-time
  • Establishes talking points

Whether realized or not, providing this contact is a way to accomplish more than the stagnant “reach me here” personality of a phone number. Participating in social media is lending an open invitation for communication, which leads to continued, and ultimately actualized, relationships.

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What you’re really saying when you offer your social network profile link to someone new
As I was joking around about what the different social networks said about the user, I realized some interesting points. Here it is, (add yours in the comments!):

Myspace: I jumped on that social media bandwagon and don’t mind all the spam and lacking integrity. Also, I hate organization and embrace poor spelling. Add me and the 489,229 people I don’t know! I’M SO COOL!

Facebook: Joined in college and it stuck. I keep in touch with all of my college friends (though it’s a little weird now that everyone’s posting wedding and baby pictures). …I hope I took down the photo that Jake posted of my passed out in the bathroom…

LinkedIn: Oh, this is social networking, too? Hm. Oh, look, Sue from accounting! She is always on time with reports and saved our company tons on taxes last year; off to write a recommendation!

Twitter: I’m really dedicated to this social networking thing. I also suffer from mild-to-severe ADD. Though I’ve only internet-stalked you so far, I’m actually interested in meeting you in person.

Nings (most): This topic keeps me up at night…so much that I don’t want to share it with anyone but my fellow up-at-nighters for fear of embarrassment.

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